Have You Heard What a Gem(ini) I am?

“I’m a motherfuckin’ starboy.” ~ The Weeknd.

“I’m a motherfuckin’ Gemini.” ~ Des.

I thought it would be interesting to comment on interesting “facts” about Geminis, since I am as Gemini as they come (June 3, 1976 – 11:58 AM).

These statements were take from 80 Interesting Facts about a Gemini Zodiac.

1.) Geminis think too much. Fact. I have a tendency to over analyze things. I’m always curious to the “whys” behind other people’s actions. For as spontaneous as I am, I don’t just JUMP into anything. I like to learn more about whatever it is that has caught my attention. My mind also has a tendency to not shut down at night. I find that leaving music on very low, or sleeping next to someone helps. ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ™ƒ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ’™

2.) As a Gemini youโ€™re extremely independent so anyone who thinks they can control you is going to have a problem. I am not sure this has to do with me being a Gemini or just someone who has self respect!?!? Also, I am (hopefully) wise enough to know when “control” on someone else’s behalf is needed, and secure enough with who I am as a person to be okay with that. Control isn’t always a bad thing. It depends who it’s coming from. It could simply be based on someone’s anxieties/fears. Not just them being an asshole. For example – I prefer to always drive. It’s because of anxiety that I need to have this control. ๐Ÿš—๐Ÿ’™

3.) Gemini is most likely to speak up to defend you in your time of need. YES! I cannot sit back and watch someone being disrespected or mistreated. ๐Ÿ’™

4.) Geminis can make friends with anyone. I’d like to think so! Even though I prefer one-on-one or small group interactions, I do enjoy meeting and talking to new people. I use to be shy as a kid and “came out of my shell” in high school. I have never gone back in the shell and prefer it this way! ๐Ÿ’™

5.) It doesnโ€™t take much to make a Gemini happy, but it takes even less to make them mad. Part of this is true. I am very easy to make happy. It doesn’t take much. Kindness. Respect Pizza. An ice cold Coke…..and if I’m into you romantically — banter and some obvious flirtation….lol. When I was younger I was A LOT more sensitive but as I’ve gotten older I am probably the most chill, relaxed person you’ll meet. Also, it takes a lot to truly upset me. It usually has to do with feeling disrespected. I don’t have much of a tolerance for that — or bad drivers! lol! I also get mad when I see other people being disrespected and injustice of any kind. ๐Ÿ’™

6.) A Gemini blowing up at you can seem weird because 20 minutes ago everything was all good. LOL! I don’t “blow up” at people, but if I am upset/hurt over something, chances are I will get over it quickly. I don’t hold grudges and I am very easy to forgive. I can usually tell when something was done unintentional or intentional. ๐Ÿ’™

7.) Geminis can be having the most fun and then suddenly want to go home. This made me laugh! No. I don’t have this issue! LOL! Usually if I am having fun with someone the opposite happens. I don’t want to leave! The only reason I would “suddenly want to go home” is if I was feeling sick — then I’m like, “See ya, bye!” LOL! ๐Ÿคฃ

8.) More than anything a Gemini needs a strong mental connection with someone and they donโ€™t find this too often in life. YES! YES! YES! – and – YESSSS! There are two things I need in my romantic relationships — sexual chemistry and great communication/conversation! I need to be able to banter back and forth and feel this mental type chemistry. That feeling like, “wow – this person really gets me!” I love when someone remembers little things I told them and are honest with their advice and feelings. When we can sit and talk about serious things and then switch to the most insane, stupid shit ever! If you can stimulate my mind — my body usually follows. Just sayin. Same applies to friendships and any relationship in my life. In order to truly connect with me — woo my mind. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

9.) If it wasnโ€™t for the fact that the body naturally falls asleep, Gemini would be up all day thinkingโ€ฆand thinking. YES! This is probably why I suffer with insomnia. The fact that I can’t shut my mind off. Luckily music helps and Benadryl (which makes me sleepy). ๐Ÿ˜ด

10.) Geminis spots the little things about a person that others miss. Aww, I’d like to think so! ๐Ÿค— I try to be very attuned to the people I am around. I also have a hard time NOT giving someone a compliment if I notice something I like. If I am romantically interested in you I will notice all the smallest things about you and chances are —- fall in love with them.

11.) As a Gemini you always pay attention to what people do, because a personโ€™s actions are much more important than their words. YES! This has become my life’s motto. I have learned the average person will throw words around with absolutely no truth behind them. If you want the truth — watch the actions. They never lie. ๐Ÿ‘ˆ

12.) A hurt stressed or all around annoyed Gemini will shut everything and everyone out. This couldn’t be further from the truth for me. I am quite opposite. I am very free/open with my feelings/emotions so if I am feeling stressed or annoyed I will most likely bring the issue up to discuss it. I should add that I will ONLY do this if I care enough about the person/situation, otherwise I will just decide whatever I am stressing/annoyed about isn’t worth it. ๐Ÿ™‹โ€โ™‚๏ธ

13.) ย Their personality is half โ€œcool as fuckโ€, and half โ€œwhat the fuck?โ€ LOL!! I don’t know!? Someone else should answer this! LOL! Hopefully the people that matter to me think I am “cool as fuck” and find the “what the fuck” part of me entertaining! LOL!! ๐Ÿ˜ฌ

14.) One of the good things about gemini is that they donโ€™t โ€œoverreactโ€ to things. They play it cool, even if theyโ€™re calling you all kinds of names on the inside. LOL! Yes. This is true for me. I tend to not overreact often, but chances are I am analyzing and trying to figure out the situation in my mind — even if I am calm. What is that quote? “Sometimes you have to play the fool in order to fool the fool who thinks they’re fooling you.” Bingo. ๐Ÿ‘

15.) Gemini will never fully let anyone in. OMGGGG! This couldn’t be further from the truth! I am a big mush, wear my heart on my sleeve and when I fall for someone, I fall fast and hard. I am a romantic at heart and crave closeness on all levels. Same applies to friendships. If I click with someone, I am extremely vulnerable and welcome you into my heart! ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

16.) Gemini has a strong dislike towards anything boring. Trick question! Hmm…yes and no. The older I get the more I like routine and the simplest things in life. With that said, to remain truly happy I like to keep things fresh/exciting/fun with my partner. I like to be stimulated (and stimulate) on all levels. Spontaneity is always fun — even in moderation. I think you can have fun doing ANYTHING with the right person. Going to the market can be fun with the right person! Watching paint dry can be fun with the right person! You get my point. If you’re bored in your life it’s because you are unhappy.

17.) As flirtatious as they can be, Geminis do not do temporary relationships. Youโ€™re either in or youโ€™re out. For me this is 100% accurate. Like mentioned earlier, when I fall for someone – I fall hard. It’s real. It’s intense and I’m in it for the long hall. I cannot remain in a relationship with someone I don’t feel this way about. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

18.) Loving a Gemini is both a complicated and rewarding experience. They know how to test you but also how to love you like no other. LOL! Again, not sure I can answer all of this. I would like to think I don’t “test” my partner in a negative way, but I’m sure I have/do at times. Hopefully they tell me what the issue is so I can fix/learn from it. But yes, I’d like to think I love my partner like no other. I am very dedicated, attentive, honest, adventurous, and just “crazy enough” to keep things interesting! ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜˜

19.) Gemini is a secret manipulator (They always get their own way without a scene). Ugh. What a gross thought! I can say this isn’t true about me. I have no problem giving into other people’s wants/needs and am super easy going. Don’t want pizza tonight? No problem! Don’t want to watch a certain movie? Sure! You’d rather stay in then go out? Okay! Don’t want to have sex again for the 532nd time? ::winces and forces a smile:: Okaaaay! lol The older you get the more you realize how successful relationships are about equal give and take. If that is happening there is no desire to “get your way” I feel. ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

20.) A Gemini wonโ€™t fight for your attention so if you ignore them it will be your loss and someone elseโ€™s gain. OOOH, this is true for me! And this is a topic I can go on and on (and on) about (in pure Gemini fashion – lol). I feel in a relationship you should never have to vie for your partner’s attention. It should just be.

Okay, let’s talk the five kinds of love languages:

  • words of affirmation,
  • quality time,
  • receiving gifts,
  • acts of service,
  • physical touch.

Mine is BY FAR words of affirmation. Maybe it’s from growing up as a shy tomboy. Maybe it’s because I am so hard on my physical appearance at times. Maybe it’s because I don’t have a large family. Maybe it’s from spending a lot of time alone — All I know is that words of affirmation mean everything to me. Knowing what I mean to someone. What someone finds attractive about me. What someone enjoys about my personality. All that stuff. My bruised ego is so grateful when that happens. For whatever psychological reasons I don’t quite understand yet, WORDS (followed up by action, of course) make me feel the most love. Next would be physical touch because that is an action and you can (usually) feel someone’s emotions by the way they touch you. It’s also a beautiful thing to experience literal chemistry with someone through touch. Acts of service would be third because you can tell how much someone loves you by the smallest little thing they do. Someone recently buttered my bread and I swear to God I almost cried because it was the sweetest, most thoughtful thing to me. Or someone remembering your favorite drink and always having it for you. Someone offering to go buy Tylenol because all they have is Ibuprofen and you are use to Tylenol – lol – those little things make a heart swell with love and feel loved. Quality time would be 4th….only because life is so different in today’s day and age. Would I prefer to wake up next to my partner every day? YES! But I realize when you are connected and in love with the right person – quality time can come in many ways. Text messages. Sharing funny things online. Phone calls. It makes you appreciate even more the physical time you have together. Of course the goal is always more time, but luckily with today’s technology feeling connected when physically not together is doable. Not my preference, but doable. Last would be receiving gifts. I LOVE to give gifts. It’s just something I’ve always enjoyed. I get just as much pleasure purchasing the gift — as giving it. I definitely appreciate gifts too. It shows you were on someone’s mind. It shows they know what you like etc., but it is not something that is of actual importance to me. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

21.) Geminis suffer from moodiness, however they hide this from close friends and family as they want to appear happy all the time. OOH, these are getting personal now – lol. Hmm, I wouldn’t say I “suffer from moodiness often”, but when I doYES, I tend to hide this from my loved ones because I don’t want to stress them out. If a situation is important enough I will turn to them for help, but most of the time I deal with stuff internally and try to stay positive and upbeat for the people in my life. If my moodiness DOES come out it means I am hurting badly. 99.9% of the time it is over hurt rather than anger. ๐Ÿฆ”๐Ÿฆ”๐Ÿฆ”

22.) For all their talk, Gemini are surprisingly shy. I wouldn’t say that my personality is shy, but there are some physical things about myself that I am (currently) “shy” about. ๐Ÿ˜ถ

23.) Gemini are monogamous and take their romantic love relationships very seriously. Gemini people enjoy life more when they are in a committed relationship where they can have someone to share life and all their quirkiness with. 100% true for me. I can’t even add to this because it’s stated perfectly. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

24.) Two things about a Gemini that can make a relationship with them hardโ€“they can be stone cold at times and they flip flop a lot. Bahahahaha…..damn, woah….I am going out on a limb and saying this is not the case with me. I would like to think others would agree. I don’t believe I’ve ever been “stone cold” (maybe there should’ve been times I was!) And, I definitely don’t flip flop. If I fall in love with your ass — I am in it for the long haul. I don’t give up on people easily at all. If and when that day finally comes to be, trust me — I had to have been hurt terribly. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

25.) Gemini is always craving for someone to laugh with. LOL! I mean, I don’t wake up in the morning and feel panicky if I don’t have someone to laugh with! ๐Ÿคฃ But – SURE – I love when somebody get’s my sense of humor and vice versa! A sense of humor is one of the things I find most attractive about a person. If you are a stodgy, tight ass chances are we won’t get along.

26.) You havenโ€™t been crazy in love until you date Gemini. They are a mixture between sweet and crazy. I’m not sure I could answer this!? LOL! ๐ŸคฃAll I can say is that yes, I do believe I am a mix of sweet and crazybut in the best of ways I hope!

27.) Count on a Gemini to shower you with positive energy, compliment you on a regular basis and never kick you when youโ€™re down. OMG – Yes! Sometimes I feel people don’t believe me or think I am “saying what they want to hear” but that isn’t the case. If I see something I like about a person I have to say it! I’ve been this way since childhood. Everyone must think I’m this huge flirt – lol! I am especially this way with someone I love. I will tell you over and over again what I love/find attractive about you. I literally can’t help it, so just take the compliments and deal with it! LOL! ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿค—

28.) In a relationship, Gemini wants to be with someone who cares enough to teach them things and help them grow. Someone who appreciates a closeness and bond. Yes! Yes! Yes! Perfectly stated and completely agree. ๐ŸŽ๐Ÿ“š๐Ÿ“ฐ๐Ÿ“ˆ๐Ÿ“‰๐Ÿ“Š๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

29.) Once you hug a Gemini, youโ€™ll never want to leave the warmth of the embrace. Awwwwww……..is this true? :)) I hope so!! ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’™

30.) A Gemini isnโ€™t the type to just say I love you. They will only say it if they mean it. YES! Period. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

31.) Gemini love and appreciate romanticism. You know, I may be a masculine presenting/soft butch lesbian — but yes, I do appreciate romanticism — in whatever form it presents itself. I myself enjoy doing things like making music mixes and surprising my partner with little getaways, etc., Romance can be expressed in so many ways! It can be in the way you smile at your partner. The way you touch their back. Putting on certain type music. Spicing things up in the bedroom — lol — there are endless ways to be romantic and sometimes corny is good! ๐Ÿ’™๐ŸŒˆ

32.) Gemini can be serious one moment and then cracking jokes the next. You never know what to expect from them. Truth! I blame this on my sign. The TWINS. I can be dead serious and in a zone and then laughing over something the next second. The important thing to know is that – when I’m being serious, I’m truly serious! Just because I can crack a joke or laugh soon after a serious moment doesn’t mean it was any less important to me. It’s just how my brain works. ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคจ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™

33.) Geminis are great storytellers and writers. Aww! I’d like to think this is true! ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ’Œ

34.) Gemini will drop everything theyโ€™re doing to help you. YES! If someone says they need me I would go to the ends of the earth to be there for them. ๐Ÿ’ช

35.) Geminis the only sign that can have good sex with every other sign. Bahahahahahaha! Good to know! ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

36.)  Inquisitive, opinionated, talkative, and with multiple interests โ€“ Geminins are fun to be around! Or annoying — you decide! LOL! ๐Ÿ‘ฆ๐Ÿคฃ

37.) Geminis have emotions, of course, and can fall victim to them just as anyone else but is able to deal with the situation extremely well and make very good decisions. I’d like to think so! I hope so!? โ™Š

38.) Gemini have a hard time trusting because they know what people are capable of first hand. Even though I do know what people are capable of, for me personally, I find trusting people very easy. ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿ’™

39.) ย When Gemini end a conversation with โ€œk byeโ€ you can be certain you just pissed them off. LOL!!! I have very rarely in my life used “k bye”, but thinking back the couple of times I did — oh man, I was very angry! Beware of the “K BYE!” text! ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ“ฑ

40.) One of the biggest things you can do to irritate a Gemini is take everything they say personally. LOL! Yes! There is nothing worse than always having to say, “I was just kidding!” If a person doesn’t get my humor/banter then I know there is no future.

Okay, it is 3:30 AM and my eyes are heavy! No more Gemini facts!

Hope you enjoyed getting to know me a bit better! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Until next time….

Eat a banana it’ll prevent leg cramps. ๐ŸŒ

-Des

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